How Not To Make A Fuss Over The Little Things Men Do

Intuition: gut feeling, empathetic, sensitive, and instinctive are just a few words to describe it. Having intuition doesn't automatically make you a psychic - it takes practice to recognize and use it to your advantage. Evoking this in the dating arena is quite an exercise, but a good relationship may be the end result of your efforts.

On the other hand, very few women have the luxury of a happy relationship for very long.

Sometimes, men get a little restless and start to veer from the direction you'd like your relationship to take. And that's where doubts start to take its shape. You start thinking thoughts such as "Is this relationship getting worse? What possible causes might have caused him to act that way?"

When this happens, your intuition turns into doubts without you knowing it.

So how can you keep this from happening?

Here's how you get away with it: don't override your psyche with apprehensions. Make your intuition work for you. Your mind works like a tug of war between good and troubling thoughts. Naturally, if you focus on the good things in your relationship, then they'll grow. Focusing on your relationship problems magnify them. Focusing on the good things takes a little practice.

However, bad thoughts may be due to your lack of confidence from stemming from your previous dating relationships. But you can change it. You shouldn't hold on to grudges for too long.

Your fear keeps you from growing your current relationship. Put it aside and focus on the good. Men are not very good communicators. We tend to send off signals that they may easily misinterpret.

If you try to analyze the behavior of men, you'll probably end up frustrated. From here, you can either do nothing and continue to be frustrated, or you can put your intuition into use and see them in a positive perspective.

What do I mean by positive perspective?

Understand that "man behavior." I know it may take time to understand men, but being afraid of the outcome won't get you anywhere.

Men do a lot of things that you might not understand at all.

Do not over analyze men's actions. Most of their activities might confuse you into thinking that this is heading to a "bad relationship." The fact of the matter is that men's actions may not mean anything at all. You may have an agenda for every single thing you do, but men often don't. Trying to know the meanings behind meaningless actions may drive you crazy and make the relationship take a bad turn.

Instead, acknowledge these behaviors and then move on.

You can practice your intuition by asking yourself silly questions, like what activities you'd like to do for the day or what you want to wear. Simple questions like these will make you comfortable in trusting your intuitions later on. Make positive conclusions from your intuition. Don't think you were wrong - if you do, things will only get worse.

Act with intuition based on long term basis. Positive intuition converts fear into something useful in your relationship. The more positive your intuition is, the more positive your outlook will be, and this will spell good things in your relationship.

In other words, men appreciate it if the women in their lives don't make such a fuss over little things. Don't let your gut feelings run your relationship to the ground!

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