The Secret of Knowing Your are Really Compatible

Wouldn't it be great if you could within 5 minutes decide, whether a person you are talking with right now, is indeed or would become a good partner for you? Just imagine...

Well, maybe it's not that simple, but let me help a little.

Let's divide this question here into 3 parts:

1. Body or sexual compatibility

2. Mental or intellectual compatibility

3. Spiritual compatibility

Body or sexual compatibility

This simply relates to sexual attraction - would you enjoy having an intercourse with the person now and in the future. And no - I'm really not talking about some sexual superstar, just a nice person to be with.

I suggest you decide about your range of acceptability here. People perhaps are not perfect, but most of them are nice (at least on my opinion).

I want to concentrate on the next two though.

Mental or intellectual compatibility

Let me consider, for the sake of this article, that mental compatibility of a person is what he or she knows about including his or her past experience and education.

Experience can be vastly different between two people, creating wealth of arguments about facts which are not really facts for another.

If one grew in jungle forests of Brazil and another in a delicate apartment of London, things might get tough when trying to decide what is right and what is wrong, even what is white and what is black, you know.

Education is another thing of the same nature.

If one person was educated in a religious school in England, for example, and another in a totally secular school in Russia, some quite fundamental truths about existence can become such an obstacle in reaching decisions, that life might become just way too complicated.

And now to the last field for our discussion...

Spiritual compatibility

When I'm talking about spiritual characteristics of a person, I tend to take into account what the person likes, loves, hates, despises and so on. Those are emotional attitudes toward things which matter here.

So in order to decide on your spiritual compatibility, first, you would need to decide for yourself what you really like and what you hate, what creates an admiration in you and what you rather despise and consider low level.

After you made a list of, let's say, 10 most important things, you would find it quite fascinating asking about those things your current or future partner and deciding how much you are spiritually alike.

So the secret I'm telling you about is to know to decide about sexual attraction, knowing what to ask to know if you agree on important things and checking the feeling of the other person towards things that are close to your heart.

Try it!

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